Welp, another busy weekend in the book. I had a wedding most of the day and night on Saturday and my in-laws (SIL, BIL, Niece 5, Nephew 9mo, FIL & MIL) were all in town for SIL's birthday. This is usual for my W's family. We only found out about 4 days ago that they were all going to be here. They just tell my W, they don't ask her. It's how they've always treated her. It's part of her issues in life. I really think she needs to stand up to them. It's not that we don't want them around but a little common courtesy would be in order. I have talked to them about it but they just blow it off. Anyway...off that tangent. We went to Disney on Sunday. Well, actually me, my two boys, and SIL's family went. W, MIL & FIL went shopping with the baby. It was a pretty uneventful weekend.
As for "us" stuff, there really wasn't any so as usual, I will micro-analyze the small stuff (mind you I'm not sweating it, lol). Last night I had a little mini-breakdown for NO real reason. Just started missing my marriage, affection, etc. I needed to go out anyway so I just went to do my errands and let it out a bit. I was fine when I got home. W never saw a thing.
It bothered me that I could still be overcome with emotion like that, especially when things are going relatively well in my sitch. I thought those days were behind me.
We did have a bit more contact over the weekend. On Saturday night she woke up in the middle of the night and snuggled up to me. She said she had a nightmare, which is not unusual for her but this is the first time in a long time that she's turned to me for comfort, at least physically.
Communication has been good. She's joking with me more now and like I keep saying over and over here, my life with my W has never really been better...oh, except for that no affection/sex and the OM thing.
It was a good weekend. Nothing really new, nothing really bad, just neutral and nice overall.
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Oh, and back to something from last week when I gave my W the VS stuff...
One thing I think I forgot was that when she tried on the pants, I made a comment that she should try on the undies as well. She laughed and said "always trying..." I said "Yep, always gotta try."
It was the kind of playful banter we used to have back before sex was more difficult to come by in our M. It was the kind of thing that would have been impossible a few months/weeks ago. Dunno if it was a slip on her part or a conscious flirt...would have been better if she actually DID try them on for me...lol. Actually, and I only put this in here because I don't know if I heard her right, when she first saw the undies, she smiled and I thought she said that "I will wear these tonight."...Of course since she did no such thing, I think I imagined that...lol.
