Ok. I like that and I really think that's something I need to understand how and when to do. I am not there yet. Thank you for pointing out those times to me. I think it will take me having another moment similar to one you have commented on before for me to realize in the moment that I could be doing things differently. Really, it will just take some more time for me to get used to the idea of being direct after 35 years of practice being anything but. I AM being more direct in many other aspects of our life so I am making progress, it's just these topics relation to our relationship, obviously the most important ones, that I struggle with. It is not a struggle that will last forever.
