-- seems like you were pretty direct... -- your response is maybe a little short or sarcastic... she may have been still thinking about how to answer... A better response might have been, "I don't want to put you on the spot and I feel like I have. This is something I think we really need to talk about at some point as we heal our R, but it doesn't have to be right now..." -- quit overthinking it, you did fine... your M does not hinge on something like this...
