Most people never get to the point where they understand they HAVE choices, let alone actually taking the drastic step to start exercising that right!
Very true... we tend to forget that we are in control of our own lives, our destinies... Sure it is easy for me to say this now... that I have completley moved forward with my life... but I can remember a day just a few months back when I couldn't see the road ahead... I realized that I had two choices sit and consume myself with the pain or move forward and see where life takes me. Hmmm... which one was the healthier decision in my sitch? Now I see the road ahead... and let me tell you the future's so bright, I gotta wear shades.
We and only we can decide if we want to stay in limbo land or in self-denial... if you don't see any signs of the WAS moving back towards you... then it's a personal call. That's why I swear the whole GAL thing is a miracle in itself... it really does heal the head and the heart. It's also our choice whether we want to continue along a path that I see from time to time not necessarily so much on this board as others... a path filled of anger, frustration, bitterness towards the WAS. Some just can't let it go. They want to see the WAS suffer, feel the pain that they did. I feel for them, I can understand their pain... but at some point, hey it just didn't work out, but if you pull yourself together you might find someone that will love you for who you are... and maybe one day down the road it will, or it won't, but living in limbo land is not healthy and certainly not when we fill ourselves full of anger and bitterness and in the end, you find yourself perhaps just as lost and confused as the WAS... your friends, family and loved ones can only handle so much. You know... plus it's just not healthy either.
Okay... off my soap box... GH wanna take over... you seem to be doing so great these days. Really am proud of you... In such a short time you've really just pulled out all the stops.
