No thanks necessary GH. I feel that I am in limbo land myself. My H does not want to seperate or divorce. Although we used to have a great friendship it faded when the A started. It has slowly been improving. Is OW still in the picture? Probably. I haven't read Mars/Venus - will pick that one up next. I did just finish Surviving Infidelity, although it doesn't help my situation much since my H has not yet committed to reconciling our M. It taught me to stop negative thinking and to decide what I want for my life. Although some may think I am crazy I have chosen to stay in this R and look the other way for now. I have weighed all the alternatives and this one works best for me and my children at this time.
GH, continue to DB and work on yourself and most importantly keep coming here for feedback and support.
