4/12/98 H said he was moving out. 6/1/98 H moved into a condo that we had been renting out. 1/06/00 sold our house. H had me move in with him. 1/1/01, said he wanted me to move out. 2/01, bought another condo for me. Redid condo interior. I moved in 4/21/01. I tried to go dark, but it is almost impossible because we own a business together, so I see him everyday. On the weekends, if he doesn't hear back from me when he calls, he calls our married children to see if they have heard from me, or know where I am. He is coming around slowly. He now puts his arms around me, kisses me and tells me he is proud of me. We have been doing a lot of fun things together, and travelling too. He still hasn't told me that he loves me, since 2/14/98. But last week he was talking house plans and lots! Two years ago I told him that I would like to repeat our vows on our 35th wedding anniversary. I told him also that I will not live with him again until we do that. That is not going to happen, because our 35th is in 3 days. I do have high hopes. He is changing into a better person. We have both been treating each other with much more respect than in the past. DeeBee
