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Bomb drop: Septembre 19 (we went out and he gave me the speech of "i dont know what i want, i need space alone to think if i love you.. i want you ground to tremble)
h left home: September 22
I found OW: October 12 or 13
He began travelling and spending a lot with her.
I began working on my own
He ask for filling for divorce... i began the process always pont him he was who want this
He acts so crazy, so hurting, i always look at him happy, beautifull
December 2001: I spent christmass time with my familly and chldren in an island... he went there... i told him going away and let me enjoy my travel...!!..
January 7 2002: he ask me going out for conversation
January 8 2002: we went out, he ask for reconciliation... he didnt feel fine with his live... he think he loves me... he wants me and my familly... we agree try to work our relationship... That night after he left me in home he split with OW

Ow continue calling him and he always told me when she call or went to his office or gym...

January 8-26: We continue date and talk a lot about us... he still live in his rent apartment

January 27 since now: he return to home...

February 28: Because he get mad about a travel i did with a friends (i had planned this before he return, and was a great reencounter with good friends from school, only girl, he get so jeaulous about that... he beleive in the retaliance behavior... he figure out me in an affrair...) he called the OW... i notice this because she called again him on the cell ohone... when i ask why, he told me all about that call.. we talked and i put very clear i want her completely out of us if we want our marriage work.. Since that day i dont know nothing about OW, i dont ask and he dont talk about that.. i did my cruise and enjoy a lot...

We are working hard in our marriage... have ups and downs, but there is no sign of OW... he arrive early home, he try to change... he speak more about worries or disconfort, he try to be more lovely, i try to be more independent, less needy, but also lovely... i change some baheviors or trying to change some behavior he doesnt like at all... We are working... We are enjoying... i feel he is happy, he looks happy, also he still a little selfish and ask form space... this is so important right now for him...

June 23: Will be our 13 wedding anniversary

We have 3 children: 10, 8 and a half and 2 and a half years... They are very happy about us together again...