PL, personally, I think you answered your own questions in the last paragraph. His A with OW is not over. Until it is, he's not really ready to work on his R with you. I know that it is so hard to be patient, but I don't think this is the right time for an R talk about your future and honesty in your R.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
