how do you deal with this?

[RBinBR]

PL, sorry to hear that you had a bad night last night. As far as the finances go, I would be very careful not to put too much pressure on him. I would have the conversation, but act as though you don't expect anything from him, since the previous conversation you had on the topic invloved his ending his support at this time in those areas. I think you are expecting too much from him at this point. It's clear that you're making progress, but you can ruin it if you get ahead of yourself. Let him make some more steps toward you before you push him on anything.