Yeah, what he said....I guess basically that was the point I was trying to get across....there are old triggers that I have dealt with and found ways to move beyond, but its also the new triggers that I have to watch for. In time I have found that my reactions to them have lessened to a degree only because I choose not to let them get to me.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu