I think in my sitch, the biggest trigger is, believe it or not, James Blunt, especially the song Goodbye My Lover and You're Beautiful. OM gave my W this CD back in October and she absolutely loved it. Mind you, I think its a very good cd myself, but hearing these songs really sends me way down (just listening to the lyrics.....) anyhow. Insult to injury, I had seen him on SNL back around the same time as was going to buy the CD for my W.....he beat me to the punch. That and the Bo Bice CD he gave to her....

In any event, I sorta tackled the James Blunt thing in a couple of ways. I found other CD's that she would be interested in and, to top it off, i actually took her to one of his concerts back in May.....she knew how I felt about the CD so this was a pretty big move on my part. I still get a little down about when I hear the songs today, but I've moved past it.

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu