Hey, read through your post after your nice post to mine! I guess we're in sort of similar boats?
You're doing great. Keep on track....lots of good times, laughs and smiles. For me, that kind of time felt unfulfilling or fake at times (since there was much to be said and so much wrong), but it DID create a nice, respectful foundation for us to start acting compassionate and respectful to each other. It built a trust that we could be safe. For once H initiated R talk and it was sincere, not just what I wanted to hear or lies.
You're in a great spot. Hang in there. This will get tough, and you'll pray that it ends, many times. Think of it this way...he's showing patience too....there was a time that his pain was so great and he didn't get a D, he walked away in ways (the A), but he still stayed married and notices the changes. Trust me, even when you think they don't, they do....they are always watching, testing.
