Quote: I must admit that it is hard to be around his constant ambiguity. He has a lot of difficulty saying what he wants, at least to me. Of course, maybe he just doesn't know, and has to think about it for a while.
Would you say this has always been the case or just since all this happened? If it has always been the case, how did that affect you? Was it "hard to be around" before?
I ask because I am like your H. It is very hard for me to ask for or talk about what I need from my W, as evidenced by my seeming inability to address our intimacy issues.
Just trying to get you to think more about your sitch (sorry) and maybe help me in the process.
