Hi Erin, So nice to hear from you. I always feel comforted by your presence, because I do feel like I can learn a lot from watching your sitch, since it is so similar to mine. My response to OT addresses a lot of what you mentioned to me also. I think you may be right, and I do think I need to be on the look out for whether he needs more space or more reassurance. A month ago it was definitely more reassurance and words of affirmation and appreciation, but that may have changed. I dunno. I think his decision about staying with me at the hotel or not will answer that question pretty clearly, at least for this weekend. We shall see, tomorrow
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