Sorry to hear that your phone call didn't go well this weekend.
I'm really glad you went to church and found it a blessing. I think that spiritual renewal is a big part of GAL and I'm really glad to see you going down that path. There's no way I could have gotten through this the way I have without leaning on God's support and love.
Good luck with the MLC supplements, LOL. Somebody could make a lot of money marketing those.
Quote: Of particular comfort was an awareness that my H began his A with the OW at a very inauspicious time, ie. according to this philosophy, their affair is "doomed" to failure.
I think his A is "doomed to failure" anyway, regardless of when he started it. The progress you're making is going to make a difference. It's clear, PL, that you are effectively putting DB principles into practice, and I believe that you're going to get results.
I hope you enjoy the rest of your vacation.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)