I just want to say that regardless of how confident, planful, and positive I appear sometimes, there are also days like today when I am full of anxiety. Yesterday, I was just happy that my H was coming home and that I would likely have 2 months "OW free" to DB my little butt off. But today, I am hooked and anxious. Today he is coming back home. Likely I will receive a call tonight, and see him tomorrow. Of course I don't want to negatively react if he had a really good time on his trip and seems perceptibly "high" on it. I am not sure how I will manage that. I guess I will just keep reading my notes from the coaching appt yesterday. I am still "acting as if" when it relates to detachment. Just needed to say that this is my work. Detach, with love. Lovingly detach. No expectations.
OK.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
