That was a really good post. I don't have much time but I wanted to comment on this...
Quote: I have not experienced ANYONE yet who has told me that the partner who had the affair didn't want to return later. Every person I know who has knowledge of someone who has had an affair, has told me that s/he has chosen and wanted to return to the marriage.
You know, not that you mention it, neither have I. Really makes you wonder...maybe this Michelle chick is on to something...lol.