Ouch. But I do understand. You're right I have heard during the M that I would argue til I am called 'right.' I'll work on that and overcome. This will be harder than I thought. Even you noticed. Eesh. I wanna say I never thought but how can I deny? Anywho. Thinking I can kinda calm the fires I text'd "So things got out of hand today. I think. It was rough. I'm sorry it went that far. Tomorrow's a new day and a new beginning. Good night" I didn't expect or got a response. Then this morning. I wrote "Good Morning I hope you have a beautiful day." I figured it was just a sign of me being a bigger person and trying not to hold any grudges about anything. Now I'm not going to communicate. Go in the dark. But why not in a high note? By being friendly. I will continue to GAL. And not worry about what she thinks. That'll be hard. But I'll try. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. O man. hours seem like days. Days seem like months. I am starting to read through DB/DR again. Now things that didn't seem to relate to me the first times I read them relate to me now. Anybody ever read the ebook Stop Your Divorce? Comments on that? That was the first book I read which he recommended reading DB. And I got counseling from the counselor/author a few weeks back.