my w and i are separated. she is w an op. been separated since december. D is pending. Have filed. Asked w to read DB and included DR for further reference. I said that if after reading she still wants out. I'll divorce her. Did I do wrong? What else can I do? I have used 180 and last resort technique. Some progress has been made. But probably got impatient. Read a letter in DR at the back that inspired me to use this approach.