Quote: Somehow he broke through all the BS in my head for a little while. I agreed to try to make it work, told him (and meant) that I wanted us to make it work. We had a lovely evening together, talked like we hadn't in ages, watched TV and laughed, made love. I LITERALLY just woke up the next morning and everything was different. I did not understand it and was very upset about it, but whatever he'd tapped into the night before, had found it's way closed again. I couldn't get the feeling back no matter how hard I tried. I was lost again and I couldn't even fake it. All the anger was back in spades. 7 days later he took his first drink in almost a year.
That sounds so much like a month ago, except we didn't talk about relationship. She just 'suddenly' shut down.
Quote: She can't help what's happening her and nothing but time will work it out. I believe that as sure as I am sitting here now typing this. She couldn't get free now if she tried.
Yeah, I think i finally get that.
Quote: So take care of yourself and the kids and pray she comes full circle and doesn't get stuck out there in the wilderness.
