Quote: I still stand by those comments I made in February. She just needs to have a bucket of reality thrown on her and she needs to "rough it" for a little while WITHOUT your love and support. She needs to be able to see what her world is like without you in it (except in relation to the kids).
I still think she'll come to the same conclusion in time.
Amy
I know you do, and I appreciate it. It's just a commentary by me on how she has SEEN the tenderness and love yet goes from one extreme to the other extreme then back again. You, Becca, everyone thought she was on the right track, that she WAS seeing that I am a wondeful man. Then BOOM! Something changed in her. I keep thinking 'what the hell is wrong with her?' Does she have us all fooled?
I'm wondering out loud if it will ever change once and for all.
Now I'm working on me. She's going to no longer get the feeling from me that she has my love and support. I said that two months ago, but then let myself get hurt by thinking she was coming back. It's hard to do and it hurts to think she'll possibly never see it, but I have to save me or there won't be anything to 'come back' to.