Life goes forward

[BeingMe]

I have to ask - what is a woman of quality? We all have our hang-ups, our baggage. Is a quality woman, someone who has dealt with it, and is confident within herself, and is a whole person despite problems, and such? I would think so! But, you were worried about your looks, height, being out of shape. Would a quality woman worry about these things, or would she see you as a person, and not define you by your looks? Or, do you see a quality woman as someone who is fit, healthy, pretty, financially stable, etc. Don't mean to seem as if I am being confrontational, but I heard this phrase on one of Dr. Phil's shows, and I wondered what they meant, since it seemed the 'geeky' guys were more focused on looks than personality.

Be yourself, Frank, and don't focus on what you think are your shortcomings. Stop putting yourself down. You know you are a good person, so what more can there be. It is probably way too early to be thinking about new relationships, IMHO, anyway. As I said, have fun, and it won't hurt to get yourself fit (helps with PMA), and healthier, for your D's sake, if not for yourself.