Quote: No offense here but your wife's head is so far up in the clouds it's a wonder her feet even touch the ground. All the nonsense she is feeding you about "growth" and "exploring her womanhood" is a stack of BS of epic proportions. Let her fall, Frank. Please stop looking for deeper meanings and ways to justify her behavior. It is what it is.
Yeah. I understand. I'm mostly was asking 'how does she feel' because I someone else told me that she feels her marriage is over and is doing what she's doing to try to 'soften the blow' to me so she doesn't have to feel so guilty. She pretty much told me that the 'intimacy' we shared a month ago was just use using each other for comfort - nothing more.
Quote: She hangs out with a bunch of damn flakes and is so influenced by their idiocy and so-called "spiritual enlightenment" that she can't tell her butt from a hole in the ground. They're parasites and they are sucking her into their hell.
Yeah, it's only really ONE person, she talks to her maybe once a week. She's just ONE person who seems 'normal' but has no idea what she has done to help damage our lives. The rest of her 'spritual' friends think she is very wrong.
Quote: Send her out there. It's the fastest way to get her back. You're not her Daddy.
I guess I was hoping I didn't have to actually go through this, I thought maybe she would see the love after OM was gone. And as much as she says it "was just sex or the physical hugging was just comfort, nothing more" it sure felt like there were real feelings developing. All the little 'flirting', the observations by her friend that we seemed to be 'getting along a lot better'. All the so-called 'signs' and she still is going out the door. I hoped, and I probably shouldn't have.
I thought I could win her over with love. If I can't do that, then there is nothing inside her to touch any more.
Now I'm trying to understand what it will mean to be alone, take care of my kids, and still have to see her weekly. LIving in THIS house which has so much of her in it. Well, the old her. The new her is nobody I know. I wish I could hate her but I can't. It's not like she's mean or anything, she's just DIVORCING me.
And where do I find people to hang out with? Decent, grown up women?
I wish I could believe that if she 'goes' she will come back soon. The only thing for sure is that she will 'go'. I kind of am hoping that when it comes to the wire, she doesn't go, but she seems to feel she 'has no choice'.
