Well. Was talking to D15 tonite. Seeing how she is doing. She brought up that she is wishing that we would 'move forward'. I asked her what she meant and she said
D15: "Well Dad, Mom want's a divorce but I think she's like a baby bird and will need to be pushed out of the nest. She is so indecisive but she has to go so we can move on".
D15: Dad, I can see you trying to do things, trying to keep her here a little longer hoping she will stay indecisive or change her mind, but she isn't going to. She wants you to be friends with her because she loves you but you really have to let go.
D15: She doesn't have any romantic interest in you any more. I see my friends do the same thing. They hang on when they should let go. Mom talks to me about guys sometimes, I wouldn't be surprised if she started dating soon.
D15: Remember 5 years ago when you guys got almost all the way to a divorce then stopped it at the last minute? Then we all went through the last 5 years of your depression, Mom unhappy? Well now Mom is the one who is messed up. Do you want to try to keep her here and go through another 5 years like that?
D15: She says she wants a divorce, so why don't you give her what she says she wants? It's better for all of us so we can get on with life. I know that hearing it from me hurts but I hope it helps you to do something instead of staying stuck.
Well. I was surprised she came out with these comments. I didn't expect it. She is very intuitive and talks to W. She thinks W is acting like a teenager and said that when Mom goes she would assume Her and D10 would live with me because it's the most stable place to be.
