Sorry to hear you're still waiting for some outcome. It can be so frustrating. I would suggest you keep trying to keep a detached distance, with the odd inspiration, like the hug you gave her. Keeping her off balance may keep her guessing, and spark an interest. Kind of being mysterious.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim