Quote: But it appears she has made a decision, doesn't it? Then she needs to exercise it.
It's the only thing that's going to wake her up. No kidding, Frank. She will stay on this fence as long as you let her.
I'm curious to see what happens when she sees the C tomorrow.
You have done all you CAN do, Frank. And then some. Now let the chips fall where they may.
Amy
Yeah, I know. I have done all I can do. There really isn't anything else except to push her to get off the fence. I keep thinking 'well maybe it's too soon, we should wait a little longer'. I'm sure she'd be comfortable staying the way she is for a while longer. And maybe my detaching will cause her to come closer AGAIN. But how long will that last?
Then again WHEN will be 'the right time' to force her to make a decision? She says she wants 'out' then she should get what she says she wants. Everything else I've done has been on a compressed timetable, why not this?
And I can live with that. And that's what we're all here for. To find solace knowing we did all we could do. I did.
Even Counselor is not happy she has to deal with W about this. She has had high hopes W would not be so foolish, that she would see the goodness around her without having to leave.
Well, we'll see how it plays out tomorrow. C will do the right thing once she gets a reading on W's state of mind.
Tonite W called me at the office to ask some questions and was very pleasant. Maybe this 'moving forward' thing was just part of some overall frustration with her life.
