Quote: Again, it comes down to taking care of yourself. I don't mean that you should be selfish, but one must detach from a situation that is toxic to your mental wellbeing. It doesn't sound like your W knows what she wants. It really is time for her to grow up - imagine what example this is setting for your D. We take our cues for behaviour from the same-sex parent.
Sadly, our D15 is more grounded and more mature than W is. D10 is mostly hurt about the divorce.
Quote: Have you thought of renting out your house, and splitting the rental payments with W? That way, the house appreciates in value, and you can sell it further down the line, depending on what your WAW decides.
If I did that, it would be sensible to rent it to HER or to myself and pay her the difference between that and 1/2 the mortgage and the child support she would end up paying me. But it would be a way to keep it I suppose.
I think talking about selling it would scare her more though.
