Yeah OneWish, she does get what she asks for most of the time. Counselor said something similar about not being there any more. As far as 'showing her the door' it's more like 'showing her how to find the door'. Her comment about 'moving forward' was part of a list of things that were 'frustrating her' so it may not be as meaningful as I ws thinking it is.
But she takes things that are said to her so literally that if I, or Counselor tell her 'then start moving on' she WILL think she HAS to do it because we told her to.
I'm just going to give her the space, stop being there, stop giving. I'll let C decide what to do or say about the 'moving on' thing. I just have to expect that she WILL take some action in the near future. She's unhappy and will do anything to 'fix' that it seems. And she has no feelings for me right now.
To detach, I just keep busy doing other things, and don't be around her whenever I can find somewhere else to be.
