Life goes forward

[BeingMe]

I guess you could ask yourself - what is the worse thing that can happen if she leaves? Life goes on, and she will either learn that she has to grow up or she will not. If she truly was a teenager, then the best thing for her, is to let her go, and learn to do for herself. If you help, keep it to a minimum, otherwise she may see that as manipulation.

If it were me, I would want my S back because he/she wants me - not for the kids, or what I could do for them. That's how I eventually played my cards, and it seemed to work - still other issues, but my H wanted to stay in the M, and he said because he realized that he was living a fantasy, and that he really did love me. He only realized all this when I decided that I want the D, and I wanted to move on with my life, and was happy with that decision.

Huge risk, but what is life if we don't take risks. Playing safe rarely gets you anywhere. Ultimately, you either make the choice, or the choice is made for you.

Thinking of ya at this time!