Quote: Frank, I do hope that there will be an end to the stalemate. I tend to agree with your C, hard to believe she will leave when so many of her needs are being met right there-- she just doesn't realize it yet. NewJohn
There will be an end to the stalemate. W seems to still believe strongly in divorce being the 'answer' to her problems.
It's still weird that Counselor still thinks that W doesn't really want to stop being a stay at home mom. She likes doing the massage classes and stuff - but doesn't want to have to actually SUPPORT herself doing it. It was all fun and 'spiritual' - until she had to rely on it to make a living. Now it's work. Something like that.
Either way I have to go back to being tough on her again like I did in January. I hate doing that now because she might really leave. It's scary but I can see that it has to be done.
Counselor still thinks she is way lost in her own emptyness. Sometimes I think it may be better for all of us if she leaves.
