Glad the venting made you feel better. BTW, I finally finished reading all your threads and I have to say (like others) what a journey you have been on Frank. Every time I have a trying time in my sitch, I think of you: Would Frank give in to a knee-jerk reaction or would he think before he acts? Well, I know the answer, so I resist the urge and try and do the right thing, not what just seems instinctual.
I'm sure there will come a time in the future where I can make such decisions on my own, but for now it helps to learn from the more experienced people here.
NewJohn
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W: 41
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