RE: Lil
BTW my phone psychic whom I mentioned a while ago said this relationship is over and we both know it.

If your bf thought/felt this too, is he the type of person that can let go of the old R and move on? Can you do the same thing?

I see and experience lots of wants that are hindered by lack of moving forward, being stuck at a point, concern if what I am doing is the right thing to do, will it work if I do it, what if the next R is like this or the new R fixes a group of old problems but new ones will come up, do I want a next R? My Point? Being stuck is a common problem.

About phone psychic Lil?????. I think that is giving a little too much power to outsiders and then I think this psychic thing is really what some people call intuition.

I am not particularly religious, or believe in some / or one all inclusive theory of spiritual life, (though did attend church and bought into a Southern Baptist type of beliefs for 5 years, studied some biblical histories and lead a class for the same).

I have a distant friend with a PhD that is fairly religious/seems dedicated to God me, that proves astrology works. I am not saying she is right or wrong. I did ask her if what she called astrology was more like intuition. I know she has that.

Maybe I am just wondering Lil. Psychics, astrology, religious doctrines. All too much sometimes and competing to say they are right or the way, what ever "the way" is?

My question is "don't you think you would get better answers from your bf's C in a joint session, if and when your bf would be OK with joint sessions?"

If I am all wet or touching on a "NO GO" area sorry. Sometimes I need to MYOB (mind my own business)

Lou, trying to see the gray and still do what is right.