Quote: If I believe that I can only be happy if I get all the sex that I want
How are you extrapolating this from what I said?
I am currently not getting "all" the sex I want, but it's close enough and I'm quite happy.
There were times, in the beginning, when I was tres hot to trot...and willing to lead...and wanted much more than what we were currently having. Still yet, I found no comfort in the fact that if I were single, I'd have found a way to be content without it. (if that's even true, which is my whole point)
I think that, with HD women, there is a point where their sex drive goes haywire at the thought of turning their sitch around and having their men lead. When that doesn't happen, their drive lessens a bit and they settle into whatever routine their men prefer. IOW, they don't continue to 'lead', they just adapt to being led in a way that doesn't completely fulfill them but is quite good nonetheless. I think that is what has happened with you and I. We happen to be married to guys who are not technically LD, in that their drive is fairly normal and predictable, but are more susceptible to mental/emotional dampers.
