My H also went through a confused state, on and off. I just validated it, and tried to ignore it. They have to find their way out of it, although eventually, I told him that I was done, and that I was ready to move on. Well, wouldn't you know it! He eventually had a lot of clarity about what he wants after seeing how excited I was about my future single life. So, I would advise patience, detaching, and the same ol' GAL. It is a slow process, as Hope80 says, so keep working on your personal goals, and stay positive!


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim