I am in a very similar situation like your. My guy is torn between me and the OW. He clearly doesn’t know what the heck he’s doing or feeling. Man, some days, I litterally want to bang my head against the wall. Just when I thought we’re moving forward, there are setbacks, one after another. There are days were I do feel bad for him, concern about his well-being. I can see how much this is hurting him as well. Anyway, I want to go to couple T. but I am SCARE. Not all T. share the same view as Michele. I am scare that somehow T. is going to gear him toward leaving we built behind. Sorry, I am just rambling on. Well, pls give me/us some feedback as to how T. help or hurt.
When it comes to feeling, nothing is set in stone.