No one said he was a horror. I just strongly feel that when you are dealing with someone prone to violence, your options certainly are limited. She can choose to get out or she can...what? If people are saying asserting herself is too dangerous than the only choice is to wait and see if he miraculously changes the behaviors that he has displayed thru most of their R/M? Now, if he wants to change and get some C, ok. But he doesn't really seem to feel that he is doing anything wrong. That sense of entitlement/justification is very strong. Yes, he is going to MC and she says he is making some improvements. That is great. But when she tries to address anything SHE feels is a problem (the marital bed, etc), it's back to square one it seems with him. So....I guess I'm out of ideas.
