She just stated that he is not prone to physical violence. The few times that has happened is all in the past, etc. If that is true, than what is the problem. Are we now saying he might beat the crap out of her if she gets in the bed. If that answer is yes, then what are we even discussing this for. She needs to get out of that M. OR, she can choose to stay and live in fear the rest of her life and certainly not assert herself. That is her choice I guess.