He has said things like 'Oh, and wouldn't that just be so convenient for you? You cheat on your H, and life just continues on'.

There is something your H wants you to figure out. This is the second time you have made mention of a remark made in this same vein. It also ties right in with my comment about you
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I think you are very adept at, and used to, getting what you want-- in most cases



Im not gonna spell it out for you. That doesnt give you the emotional awareness you need to make a success of this permanantly.

I can tell you havent gotten it yet. because of this---> I don't know how long I'm supposed to wait.

however your 180's are working... ----> To H's credit, he has been much better about that kind of stuff.

here is another hint.
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I guess I've always believed that a person can accomplish whatever they set out to do. ..... I work hard and I believe that hard work pays off.
Good attitude. Your M will be a succes with that attitude.