There's just only so much one person can do before it becomes necessary for the other person to participate in a meaningful way. . .I want to make *this* M good, but I don't know how long I'm supposed to wait.

Holy Smokes Heather! Just when I was beginning to think that my sitch had nothing in common with yours and maybe I should delete it from my favorites, you post this!!! I couldn't have stated my feelings about my sitch better myself. Even tho' I believe my W is in the throws of a MLC and we are separated 18 months today, (Happy Anniversary to us!) I still find insight from your thread.

I haven't posted to you b/c I haven't had anything constructive to say. I still keep up with your sitch and pray for you. Take care.

~J