Hopefully H will now consider what his stance says to his children regarding how marriage should be. This may be the crack that tumbles his walls if he can look past his hurt and see what is right for the R and right for the children. Kids have a way of focusing the mind. I know that nothing my W has said to me has ever caused a physical reaction but I have had the kids say things that have buckled my knees and made me physically dizzy.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.