Now, IMPO, is the time to either just walk up and kiss the man and take the chance at rejection. Either he will allow you to kiss him, or he will reject the kiss....and that will open up the opportunity to ask him about it.
Ok, I differ. Particularly on the NOW, part of the sentence. Its not a step, its more like a pushing jump. and its something to definitely resist, and IF he does reject, will you be able to not personalize?
Once he has rejected and resisted, I dont see him as being willing to talk about it, either. Not from what I see of his past behavior.
