I don't get the bed and the comment about he doesn't know when things will go bad again. If it not that big of a deal to him and his reasoning is that he doesn't know when things will go bad again....does he not see that he's sabotaging the R by telling you to stay out of the marriage bed? If it weren't a big deal....why continue it? It doesn't make sense to me. Just trying to understand.
You also said this....("I'm just wondering if the other things will come in time?") Stop wondering and ask the man. Heather....don't be afraid to ask things of him. I read in your posts that you wonder this....or you wonder that.....ASK him.
