Sorry about the turn of events. I understand your angry about the comment of the nervous tic. Of course truth be told H has a habit of instead of simply putting his arm around me or touching my arm he rubs me where ever his hand is. Setting my nerves into a raging blither. So I am probably as guilty as saying something as thoughtless as your H did. My question is why did H not feel like he could share this with you last night while it seemed to be bothering him so much. And were you a aware that something was bothering him prior to his comment?