Lil,

Those aren't his words that is my reading of his behaviors. Bf will get on my case here for "mind reading: and he is right. The real problem is that there are other times when he does want to FCUK but the whole "have to" thing seems to make him totally lacadaisical about it. He would say, "No, see, I really want a baby and I really want you I'm just so tired, worn out, frustrated, overworked, worried, etc..." I don't think we will be having sex tonight despite my fertility if he isn't going to be a full partner. We'll see what happens.

Karen