Ok, this is really, REALLY bad advice, and acutally quite offensive to anyone who either has, or has had a fertility problem. Its dismissive of the fact that there IS IN FACT, a problem

Karen I am very sorry and embarassed if I was insensitive about this.
I didnt see you and H as the desperately wanting/never had a child type couple.

My additional comments were not meant as medical advice, Im well aware of the timinig and some other things, for my own self protective reasons... they were just a way to take some of the seriousness of it with you and H. Removing stress has some amazing effects on the body in general. Before I ramble and cram my other foot in my mouth, Im just going to go finish chewing on the one I already got stuffed in there. Gonna take awhile.