I think blackfoot has an excellent point. You have said a few times that your H really wants a baby (I know you do too). If your H really wants a baby, then let him step up to the plate OFTEN, daily even, or multiple times a day, and do what MEN do to make a baby. Psychologically put the responsibility on HIM to put out-- not just for YOU but to create what HE wants. Might shift things around emotionally. At least try it that way-- DAILY-- for a reasonable period of time.
