Well, my foster son through M and his wife had their third baby. So...I am a fourth time over foster-grandma. The baby is bee-you-tee-ful! He isn't named yet so we've all just been calling him Bob - all the family babies from
1 1/2 to 2 1/2 are all calling him Bob as well. I don't know what his name will be but Bob will stick as a knickname.

Ex-H is in town due to non-payment of child support court hearing. Having him pick up the kids etc...is always tense and I hate it.

H was really interesting this evening. As we were getting ready to go to hospital to see baby H asked me why I was plucking my eyebrows and I said "so they have a pleasing shape" and he said "your azz has a pleasing shape" to which I said "you can't see it from the front" and he said, "yeah but I can picture it in my head which I do often." I said, "Watch it or we won't make it to hospital to see the baby" and he said, "don't tempt me." A few short minutes later the phone rang and it was my sexually inappropriate boss calling to whine about his divorce and the front door bell rang and it was ex-H to show off his under-employed, spending all day at the gym self. Later, H started fussing about how boss and ex-H can't go around demanding my time at home etc... Then he said, "BTW this is me being jealous in case you weren't sure." Folks, you could have knocked me over with a feather. First, a compliment about my azz then an admission of having random sexual thoughts involving me AND actual jealousy on my behalf. How about that
sh!t?

H also took off work tomorrow to hold my hand in court. The value of this cannot be described.

For any who wonder why I hang on, why I believe it can be better, why I love him and why I would be willing to have another (fourth) child with him - well, all of that above says it. I do love him so. Of course, I just love him best naked and sweaty - is that so wrong?

Karen

PS Looks like I missed a lot of excitement on this board. It will be interesting to see who chooses to stick it out and learn something and who really was here just to stir up trouble.