Quote: the fact is that for you to be fully aware of and in full enjoyment of your dancing ability, you must dance with a well-matched partner.
I don't disagree, but there is a tendency to mix-up the desire to have a dance partner with the fear that you will have a terrible time at the ball if you don't arrive with your dance card already filled.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
