the fact is that for you to be fully aware of and in full enjoyment of your dancing ability, you must dance with a well-matched partner. That's it Lil! I am rarely satisfied with my SL with my H for that very reason. I think some others on this board could relate to the dancing analogy too. You are not fully aware of your sexual potential, nor can you fully enjoy it, unless your partner brings it out in you. Sigh. Makes tons of sense but....so what now? Can you teach your partner to dance like Fred Astaire, Ginger Rogers? Some people just have rhythm and some dont. So I guess I need to accept him stepping on my toes every now and then and just keep practicing. Be happy progress is being made even if we never will win Dancing with the Stars. Lol
