Quote: There is part of me that sees the state of health of the SL as a measure of my womanhood but also my wifehood (if you will). I would feel (as I do) that I am leading half a life.
I know what you are saying but it seems to me that one way or another you are taking on a responsibility that should be your H's. You are giving him what he wants or is willing to ask for sexually, right? Would you magically become a better woman or wife if you woke up tomorrow married to a man with a higher drive?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
